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Do you know who you are?

Do you know what’s your passion?

Do you know what you want?

Do you know who you want to be?

Many men look to their dating life to complete them. They think that a woman will make it all better. But….Have you ever met someone who married young?

Many people who marry young regret it. They thought all life was about was love,marriage, kids, and family. While that stuff is important, those who marry young learn a lesson.

The lesson?

- There is more to life then just the opposite sex.
- You will always want more of something.

And so their life ends up being a mess. They seek out someone else to make them happy instead of making themselves happy.

Here are a few things that will help you find out your identity:

What Are Your Goals

You know what it is you really want. Make those wants your goals. Make sure your doing it because you want it.

Do you want to get married because everyone else is? If that’s your reason, then you will have a hard time being happy.

Do you want to be a pickup artist because it’s really cool? If that’s your reason, then you may pickup lots of women and never be happy.

Make sure you think this through. Always ask yourself why you want something and are working towards it. How is that something going to make you feel more fulfilled?

Living In Your Own Reality

Many people will try to make up the rules you live by. Some of those rules are good and some of those rules are bad. Take the rules you like and use them in your own way. Don’t be afraid to ignore the ones you don’t like.

People will also try to control what you believe in. You need to make up your own mind about what to believe in.
Always questions rules and beliefs.

Here is a couple examples.

First dates must be a dinner and a movie. Why? First dates in my world might be meeting at the grocery store.

The best place to meet women at the club. Why? The best place for me to meet women might be at the bookstore.

What you will find is that you have more success with your own beliefs and rules, rather then someone else’s.

What Do You Value Out Of Life?

Make sure you know what is important to you.

If you find yourself buying expensive cars when you hate them, you have a problem. People get jealous of seeing others have more then them. The truth is that you could be richer and look more poor. It just depends on what you value.

Here is a few things about me.

- I wouldn’t want to drive an expensive sports car because I’m not that crazy over cars.
- I wouldn’t want to live in a mansion because I wouldn’t know what to do with all the space.
- I enjoy simple things as much as expensive things.

Your values might be the other way around. That’s okay. Your suppose to be different then me.

I hope you use this to find out your own identity.