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Have you ever seen an attractive woman and didn’t know what to say?

Have you ever felt like panicking at the sight of a beautiful woman?

Have you ever just froze and didn’t know what to do with yourself at the sight of a beautiful woman?

Well, your not alone. There are millions of men in this world who are the same way. Even if these men can muster up the courage to talk to a woman they struggle to keep the conversation going.

So how can you overcome this problem?

Here are a few tips to help you out in this area:

Tip #1: What’s The Penalty If You Don’t Talk To Her?

There is always going to be a penalty if you don’t talk to her. That penalty can be as bad as being rejected.

- You may feel you let yourself down.
- You may spend another night alone.

And so forth.

Use this as motivation to actually talk to her.

Tip #2: She May Be Just As Nervous

If she finds you attractive or at least is flattered by your interest, she could be nervous too. She may even have her own set of problems.

- Is he just another player?
- What does he want from me?
- Do I trust him?

Realize that your not the only one who has things to think about.

Tip #3: Will It Kill You?

Will you live another day if she rejects you? What is the worst that could happen?

Think of the worst outcome you can think of. Will that outcome kill you? How likely is it for that outcome really to come true?

Your fear causes you to imagine things that are not likely to even occur.

Tip #4: Find Common Interest

If your both nervous then it can help to find common interests. Ideally you want her to point out what you have in common. This gets her to chase you. However, some women may be shy and won’t search for common interest. Ultimately you need to adjust based on her personality.

Try using “Have you ever…” To get her opinion, to get her to agree, and to share herself.

“Have you ever had an experience as exciting as that?”

Conclusion

In the end you won’t ever be comfortable talking to women until you practice. One of the things you should try doing is talking to women for the fun of it. Don’t bother hitting on them or trying to get their number. Just talk for the sake of being friendly.