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In todays world women are tough. Women are independent and many of them like to show it. This doesn’t change the fact that a woman will look to you for strength and protection. There are ways to go about doing this. There are also ways to go about doing this that are completely wrong.

Today were going to look at how you can do it in the right way.

#1 Protection Of Her Feelings And Emotions

This is the most important one of them all.

Just because a woman acts tough doesn’t mean she is tough. Women are emotional by nature. Most women will get really emotional towards that special man in her life. She looks to him to help control those emotions. But if you can’t control them then she can ruin your relationship.

For example, I know a guy who’s wife would scream at him all the time for no reason at all. The truth is that she is screaming at him for a reason. She needs something from him…she needs him to help control her emotions. She is angry and she feels she can let it out on him.

Now, of course no one likes being screamed at all the time. He had to do something or else their marriage would come to an end.

What did he do?

- He came home from work
- She screamed at him
- e pinned her against the wall
- He calmly told her the way things were going to be from now on.
- He kissed her passionately, told her that he loved her, and told her you can talk to me but not scream at me.

It worked.

The lesson? You always have to be aware of a womans emotions and feelings when you communicate to her. Women need to be protected from their own emotions.

#2 Support

All her life people have told her she can’t do it. All she ever wanted was someone to believe in her. Her friends didn’t and her family didn’t.

Along comes a man in her life. This man believes she can do it and will be there for her every step of the way. This is the kind of support she has always wanted!

The lesson?

You can protect her from all the people who didn’t believe in her.

#3 Problems

You have probably heard that you shouldn’t listen to a womans problems. What a load of crap that is.

Don’t listen to a womans problems when you first start dating. But…as things progress you only look like a jerk if you don’t offer her support in this area.

- You don’t have to fix her problems.
- You don’t have to tell her how to fix her problems.

You can listen to her problems and support her when dealing with them.

“This is obviously bothering you. I want you to take care of this first thing in the mourning. Call me afterwards to let me know how things went.”

The lesson?

We all need someone to be there for us when things go wrong in our life.

Conclusion

I hope you use these 3 things in your own dating life and relationships. You will find that these can even work with any relationship. They are very simple, but also very useful. Take notice that these are not the simple nice guy type things. Your not buying her flowers or taking her out to an expensive restaurant hoping that it will make her feel better. These are things that help create positive feelings in her.