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Technology is a really great thing. Now of days you have a number of different options at your disposable when it comes to contacting a woman. Phone, email, instant messaging, social networking sites, and text messaging are all decent options.

Witch one is really the best?

They all have there advantages and disadvantages, but the one that is still the best is the phone call.

Why the phone?

Because phone calls still show the most confidence. You won’t be hiding behind a computer, and she won’t be able to either. Let’s not forget that being able to hear each others voice is also important.

The main problems that most men have with phone calls are:

1.Too shy to call and talk over the phone.(Fear)
2.Getting her on the phone or getting her to call back.

The first one just means you have to practice more. Talk to some of your friends over the phone more often and talk to a friend before you call her. Get yourself in a social mood before you even give her a call.

The second one can be more difficult. You need to leave a compelling message on her voice mail, find when is the best time to call, or give out your number to get her to call you.

Leaving a compelling message takes some trial and error. Once you find a few that work you can use them on other women.

“Hi Sarah. I walked passed you today and said Hi. You just kept on walking like you didn’t even know me. I said to myself that girl sure is a…. Well you get the idea. I’m not sure if your as nice as I originally thought.”

I have no clue if that message would work at all. It’s just something I thought up while writing this. But the idea is to perk her curiosity and get her attention, and make her want to prove that she is nicer then what you think she is.

That message would probably work better if you have called her several times, and she has yet to return your call.

There are lots of different tricks you can use, but I’m going to stop there for now.

In summary:

- The phone is still the best way to contact a woman, but you should use other methods too.
- Practice talking over the phone if your not good at it.
- Get yourself in a social mood before you call her.
- Leave compelling messages that perk her curiosity to get her to want to call you back.