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The first kiss is very important. If there isn’t passion then you have a problem.

Many women consider the first kiss to be very important. Some women place such a huge importance on the first kiss that it is a deal breaker for her. If the kiss is bad then all attraction will be lost.

I’m going to give you a few tips to help you get this right.

Just Going For It

There are worse things you can do then kiss her.

Some men hesitate, think about, look at her lips, and then finally decide not to even do it. This may go on for an entire date.

She knows that you want to do it. You will look weak if you don’t kiss her. Just lean in slow so that she can see it coming. This way she can back away if she isn’t ready.

Major Attraction First

Ideally you want some attraction, tension, flirting, and a good connection first. She will be more receptive to your kiss and will return a more passionate kiss.

- Is she flirting with you?
- Is she leaning in towards you with her body language?
- Is she tilting her head?
- Is she frequently touching you?
- Is she trying to come up with excuses to be alone with you?
- Is she trying to get closer to you and take away space?

These are just a few signs.

Getting The Kiss Right

There are very few things in movies and on TV that work well in the real world. This here is one of the exceptions to that rule. This is a variation of something you might see in a movie.

- Find a quite spot. (Somewhere where there are less people. This isn’t always the case. You can kiss on the dance floor at a club.)
- Look deeply in her eyes.
- Get closer to her and pull her hair back from her face a little. Put one hand above her hip or on it.
- Whisper in her ear. “I’ve been wanting to do this all night. I want to kiss you.”
- Tilt your head to the side a little bit and slowly lean in.
- Kiss softly and let things build with passion if she is really into it.

If things go really well she will almost go limp into your arms. Things can get very heated from here.

You don’t need to emphasis any tongue for the first kiss. It can be very soft, gentle, and even short to be enjoyable.

Your probably wondering about the kissing technique? All you have to do is kiss her the way she kisses you. If she gives lots of tongue, then you give lots back. The idea is to give her the type of first kiss that she wants.