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Would you like to get more confidence with women?

If you would then read this post right to the very end. Were going to look at some tips that will help you be and feel more confident.

Probably the biggest secret of attracting beautiful women is through confidence. This is the opposite of what most men think. Allot of guys want cool tricks and magic lines to get a woman to fall for him. Some of that stuff does work, but the tricks can’t go on forever. Eventually, you will want to get beyond all of that stuff.

Confidence Tip #1: Your Not Being Yourself

You know how everyone tells you to be yourself? Have you ever noticed how useless that advice really is?

You never really are being yourself!

- Being scared isn’t being yourself.
- Being nervous isn’t being yourself.
- Trying to impress women isn’t being yourself.

These are all behaviors of someone who is being anything but themselves. Do not take that advice too seriously. I used to hear that advice all the time. If anything it will only frustrate you even more.

Confidence Tip #2: Change The Reason Why You Are Approaching Her

This is huge.

Most guys approach a woman with the intent of hitting on her, flirting with her, getting her number, picking her up, and so forth. That can work if you are a player. But you aren’t a player. For the average guy, approaching a woman, for those reasons will only create anxiety.

You have to change the reason why you are approaching.

So what can that reason be?

- To get her opinion.
- To be friendly.
- To get the time.
- To ask for directions.
- To see what she is like.
- Something that is neutral.

You, then escalate and move things forward as you get her talking to you.

Confidence Tip #3: Don’t Place Too Much Importance On The Outcome Or Her

This one is another biggie.

When you see a beautiful woman you practically hypnotize yourself.

“I got to get this one!”

“I got to get her number for sure!”

“I can’t let this one get away!”

“I got to have sex with this woman!”

All of that just builds more anxiety and pressure. You either won’t approach, or if you do, you will make a fool of yourself.

There are an abundance of women on planted earth. They are everywhere and there will always be more of them. Approach her, talk to her, flirt with her, but don’t put pressure on yourself.

“You don’t have to have that woman.”

“You don’t have to get her number.”

“You don’t have to have sex with her.”

These are just possibilities if things happen to go well.