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When you see an attractive woman its only natural for you to want to impress her and seek out her approval. It will be your first instinct to think like this and react accordingly. However, there is a problem with this. The more you try to impress her, and the more you want her approval, the more you end up looking weak and not confident with yourself.

You need to be able to maintain your authority when you are with a woman. Were going to look at how you can impress a woman and maintain that authority.

Your Appearance

The first thing she sees is how you dress, how you walk, your body language, and your overall sense of style. You really don’t have to look dominant or alpha as most people like to put it now of days.

You just have to look comfortable, relaxed, like your enjoying yourself, and almost as if the world moves at a different pace for you. Most people look stressed, busy, and as if they are in a hurry. Your relaxed presence will have a soothing effect on her.

Your Speech

The next thing that a woman is going to notice about you is your words. It isn’t so much what you say, but how you say it.

If you sound nervous, stutter, and mumble then you wont be congruent with your great appearance. A matter of fact, you will end up looking more like a liar. (Your not who you appear to be.)

Focus Your Attention

This is very important. Everything can fall apart right here if you don’t get this right.

Women are always on the lookout for liar’s. You have to be what you appear to be and be what she thinks you are. In other words, you have to be believable.

If you tell her a story, but can’t look her in the eyes, she won’t know if your telling the truth.

The same goes for asking her questions.

Don’t care about her answer? She won’t think your interest in her is real.

Don’t listen to what she says? She won’t think your interest in her is real.

Same thing with compliments too. Don’t tell her she is beautiful while you are staring at another woman.

Be Ready For Her Tests

She is probably going to test you to see if you can maintain your authority. She may ask you a challenging question to see if your lying or get on your nerves with her behavior. These sorts of tests need to handles correctly.

In many cases you can ignore her test, have her answer her own question first, or fight back by asking her a different question that will challenge her.

Don’t Suck Up To Her

Be nice, but not to nice too fast. Drink buying, gift buying, paying her way, and favors should be kept to a minimum early on. She may even try to get you to do those things early on as a test.