How To Pick Up Women At A Bar
By Tyler on Jun 27, 2008 in Approaching / Talking To Women, Dating & Seduction Tips
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Depending on how you look at it bars, clubs, pubs, and lounges are great places to meet women. The main reason is because you increase your odds of meeting single women there. Of course there are allot of disadvantages too. We won’t look at those here today.
I’m just going to give you a few random tips to help you out in meeting women in these areas.
Tip 1: Settle Into The Environment
The most desperate guys at the bar are ones approaching all sorts of hot women and offering to buy them drinks.
Relax and enjoy yourself. Buy a drink and do some people watching. Get yourself into a more social mood. Talk to other guys, people who seem interesting, and women you might not even be attracted too.
Tip 2: Look For Available Women
All women go to clubs to get attention. It doesn’t matter what they tell you. They don’t spend all that time in front of a mirror for nothing. Despite what they may tell you, they don’t do it to impress other women either. If they were dressing up to impress other women they would be going to a lesbian bar.
Because women are looking for attention you might not get anywhere with a large percentage of them. This is why you got to look around the bar and be aware of witch women are just looking for attention. Usually some eye contact and smile will help you filter through them.
Tip 3: Girls Night Out?
Remember what I said about finding women who are there to actually meet someone instead rather then just attentions? This is one reason why.
Don’t bother approaching women who are having a girls night out. The odds of you getting anywhere is stacked against you on this.
Tip 4: Tell Them Witch Girl You Like
At bars most women are going to be in groups. There is nothing wrong with talking to the whole group, but your not going to want to do that forever. Simply tell them witch one of them you like.
“I like your friend over here. I think she is cute.”
This will allow them to understand why your paying so much attention to her and to see that you like one another.
Tip 5: The Flirting Woman & The Easy Going One
There are 3 good ways to approach a women in a group, but two of them are ideal. I’m going to give you the two ideal ones.
1.The flirting woman: This is the woman you have been flirting with from a distance. She already likes you and that makes her easier to approach then one who may not.
2.The easy going woman: In most groups of women there is one that is easier to get to know then the others. She is more friendly and social. If you can identify that woman then you should approach her first.
The next time you head out to the club give some of those things a try.

