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By itself getting a woman’s phone number doesn’t mean a whole lot of anything.

- It doesn’t mean you will get a date.
- It doesn’t mean you will get a hold of her over the phone.
- It doesn’t mean she likes you.
- It doesn’t mean you will ever see her again.
- It doesn’t mean she will give you the right number.
- It doesn’t mean she will even remember you.

That’s kind of a slap in the face for guys who try real hard to get lots and lots of womens numbers.

If you want to get a good number then there are two things you need to work on.

1.You need to be able to keep a good extended conversation.
2.You need to have good social skills over the phone.
3.You need to get her email too.

Let’s look at these in a little more detail.

1. The longer you talk to her and give her a good time the more likely she is to remember you. Getting a womans number fast is great when your just starting out, but as you go along you will find that it’s not enough time to create a good connection with her. Work on setting up mini dates on the spot if at all possible.

2. The same thing applies here. When you are just starting out your phone calls should be simple, short, and to the point. With more experience you can use the phone to resell yourself. This will remind her why she liked you so much when you met. You got to get good at talking over the phone.

3. E-mail is great for allot of reasons. It’s very easy to contact one another through e-mail. You can get in contact with her over e-mail a few times to resell yourself. This is great if you can’t get her over the phone.

To get her contact information all you have to do is ask. Use her name and tell her why you want it.

“Suzy ( Use her name to make a connection.) I find you really nice to talk to. (The reason why). I got to go, but I want to see you again. Why don’t you write your number down right here.” (Hand her a pen and piece of paper.)

Of course you have to do it at the right time too.

That’s about as simple as it can get. If you want to play this game then your going to have to get good at following up on these women.