Be honest - are you one of those shy guys who can’t approach women?

Are you one of those guys who can’t start a conversation?

Are you one of those guys who doesn’t feel comfortable in the presence of a beautiful woman?

I have good news for you. Today were going to take a look at how you can over come your issues with shyness.

Tip #1: Go Where Your Comfortable

Forget about approaching women in places that make you feel uncomfortable. Go to places where you will feel comfortable meeting strangers. In many cases this will be places where you have interests. If you like to work out then starting a conversation at the gym might be a good idea. If you like to bowl then meeting women at the bowling alley might be a good place for you to meet women.

Obviously, with you being shy you will find it difficult anywhere. But you still need to push your boundaries a little. So if your going to push then push in places where you will be more comfortable.

Tip #2: Learn Small Talk

Learn to talk to people everywhere. If your at the grocery store ask the cashier how her day has been. Start saying Hi and asking people How are you? Most people will just think your friendly.

Little things like this will help you out a great deal when it comes to building conversation skills. You don’t have to just practice on beautiful women. Start by talking to anyone.

Tip #3: Ask For Her Opinion

When you are stuck for things to say just ask her for her opinion on something. It won’t seem weired if it is in context.

At the bookstore you can ask her for her opinion on a good book.

At the grocery store you can ask her for her opinion on food.

This works because most people are eager to offer their own thoughts.

Tip #4: Take Classes Or Join A Club

The best way for a shy person to meet people is through classes, clubs, or groups. You will have the same interests as others that are there and this makes it easy for conversation. You don’t have to put any pressure on yourself to meet women. You can just make friends with them and be social.

Tip #5 Don’t Use It As An Excuse

Most people have moments of where their not open to meeting new people or where they find someone a little intimidating. We can all be a little shy sometimes.

The problem is when you fall back on your shyness as an excuse to not approach women. You have to make the decision to not be shy around a specific woman. Let her see some of your better qualities.

It’s not “I’m too shy.”

Instead it’s… “I might be a little shy, but I want to get to know her. I’m going to go ahead and speak to her.”