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Approaching a woman is one thing and keeping the conversation going is another. Both are very big problems that many men have.

Today were going to look at that awful thing that happens after you have made a great connection. That awful thing happens to be running out of things to say.

Now lets think this through.

Do you always have something to say to your friends? Do you always have something to say to family members? No you don’t! What you have is that feeling that you can say anything to them. Not only do you have that feeling, but your friends do to.

Many people would call what I just described as rapport. Call it what ever you want. The point is that when two people have a connection they never run out of things to say because they feel as if they can share anything with one another.

It’s not easy to create that feeling with a woman. There are obstacles you need to overcome. Your strangers, you might judge one another, and you have no past. Here are a few ways you can get around that.

Deal With Your Anxiety

One of the main reasons its hard to keep a conversation going is because you want to impress her. You have to try to give up that need to impress her. Instead of trying to impress you want to be interested in her. Witch you leads to…

Ask Open-Ended Questions

You have to make an effort to get to know her. If you ask boring questions and simple yes or no questions then your not trying hard enough. Once you ask these questions you can easily come up with more questions to ask her based on what she just told you. For example, if she says she is from Miami you can ask her related questions about Miami.

Have Your Own Opinion & Comments

If you just ask questions then it’s just an interview. Add your own comments, have your own thoughts, and opinions to the things she just said. This isn’t very hard to do, but there is that fear of saying the wrong thing that you need to overcome.

Share An Experience Together

Talking alone isn’t good enough. You have to get out there and do something together. This could be dancing, a walk, shopping, or something. Even something small like that can make a huge difference.

Escalate

Your interactions, dates, conversations, and so forth need to constantly be moving forward. You can’t just sit in the lets just be friends category forever. The more things move forward in your relationship the more you will feel comfortable talking to one another. This is probably the most important. If you don’t keep moving things forward then your conversation will usually come to a halt.

Don’t Talk Every Day

When you first start dating there is no reason for you to speak every day. You will probably get sick of each other allot faster if you do speak constantly.

Conclusion

While all these things sound simple on the surface they do take some practice. Keep in mind that the more you take interest in her the easier the conversation will be. And the more interesting of a life you live the more interested she will be to find out how interesting you are.