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One of the most popular places to meet women is at clubs, bars, pubs, and lounges. Personally, I think that many of these places are overrated.

You don’t really know why the women are there. It could be just to get mens attention so they can validate themselves, girls night out, dancing, someones birthday, an escape for her problems, and maybe other reasons.

A large quantity of these women are not going to be open to meeting you at all. Sure, they will take your attention, but that is about all.

This is why running around the club talking to every woman that you see is a big mistake. This is the opposite to what I used to think. I used to think that if I wasn’t socializing then I would look strange.

If women see you running around hitting on all the the other women it raises a red flag.

Am I his second choice?

How many women has this guy approached?

This guy must be desperate for sex..

This guy is defiantly out to pickup women tonight…

Here is what you should be doing.

- Take in the environment in a very relaxed manner.
- Gaze around the room.
- Lean against something.
- Find a comfortable place to sit and lean back comfortably.
- Don’t rush to approach just any woman.
- Make eye contact and hold it with other women.
- Talk to other guys.
- Enjoy your drink and take in the music.
- Go to enjoy your night out even if you don’t meet any women.
- Be selective and picky about the women you approach.
- Watch for signals that women give off that they might want you to approach them.
- Send out a very calm and relaxed vibe.
- Don’t be afraid to go by yourself, walk around by yourself, sit by yourself, or stand by yourself. This is a strong indication of confidence.

Give those things a try. I’m willing to bet you will have more success and even have some women approach you.