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So you have probably gotten all sorts of dating advice over your life. You have gotten it from friends, from family, your parents, other women, the media, and dating experts. But you still got no woman.

Guess what?

You have a problem.

Yes you!

Your going nowhere fast. Your just spinning your wheels. Now what are you going to do? Your going to keep on keeping on. I’m going to show you how.

First, the reason you keep spinning your wheels is almost always because you are not pushing yourself out of your usual comfort zone. That is just a fact. People like to feel comfortable not uncomfortable. It feels very comfortable to keep on doing what you have always done. Your comfort zone protects you and puts you in a safe haven.

Hmmm… It feels so good in there. Doesn’t it?

I’m going to give a great tip that will help you break out of your comfort zone. The trick to all of this is to actually go and do it.

Change Your Routine

This is as simple as changing things up. Go a different way to work, different restaurants, different places on your walk, and just different places then you would normally go to.

Start doing things out of order.

If your Saturday looks like this

1.Get up
2.Clean Apartment
3.Work out
4.Do laundry
5.Shop For Groceries
6.Watch Some TV
7.Go Out With Guys

then find a way to break it up and make it different. Modify it, do something different, skip something, or do something on a different day. You don’t have to be an efficient well oil machined.

I want you to particularly take note of how you feel when you start doing things differently. If you take a walk on a different path how does it make you feel? Do you feel lost? Do you have to ask for directions? Does everything just seem different to you? Are you seeing different types of people then what you normally would? All of that is good. Once you get used to it; it starts to make you feel excited because your not doing the same old boring things all the time.

Change Where You Normally Go To Meet Women

Where do you currently go to meet women? For many men it ends and starts at bars. Some men like to meet women at work. There are probably many men who go nowhere to meet women. Yikes!

So here is what you got to do. The places you currently go to meet women are now places you go to for another reason.

Going to the club –> Going to have fun with friends.
Going to work –> Going to do your job. (Oh the horror.)
Your home (Meaning you go nowhere) –> The kingdom you bring women home too.

This means you no longer will go to those places to meet women. You can talk to women if you want or ignore them completely if you want to in those usually places.

Now what you have to do is go to places you wouldn’t normally go to meet women.

You go to the bookstore to buy books –> Now your going to ask a woman for her opinion on a book.
You go to the mall to shop –> Now your going to the mall to ask a woman you don’t know for fashion advice.

Make your reasons to go are specific.

“It’s not I’m going so I can meet women at the mall.” It should be “I’m going to the mall to ask a woman to help me out with fashion advice.” Make it your goal and focus in on it.

As you can see your switching things around. There are many interesting things that can come out of this. You may find that now that your going to the bar just for fun that it is easier to meet women. Why? Because your not trying, there is no pressure on you, and you start sending out better vibes. You may even find that women start approaching you at the bar.

Now you have to try this stuff. It won’t work if your don’t do anything. If you do try it you will find that you start to get excited about doing things that get you out of your comfort zone. This can only lead to better things for you.

This exercise might seem a little wacky, but you will start to understand it better after you do it.