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Most of us guys don’t approach women because we are afraid of how she will respond to us.

Will she reject you?

Does she have boyfriend?

Is she married?

Will she ignore me?

Will she get angry at me and tell me off?

But so what if she does do any of those things? Those are all answers to things that you need to know if you want to see how far you can take things with her.

If she is married do you really want to keep pursuing a married woman? If you didn’t approach her you would never know that. Instead, you would be left with the guilt of not knowing. Not knowing what she is like, if she is open to dating you, or if she is unavailable.

It puts the end of “If only I had just said something to her”.

Now is the time for you to start talking to the women that catch your interest. Start a conversation with her by looking at what makes her stand out.

Is it a piece of jewelry?

Is it a tattoo?

Something noticeable about her hair?

What about her shoes?

Her shirt?

Her vibes or energy?

You: Hi
Her: Hi
You: You must be from a small town?
Her: Actually I’m from New York. What made you think that?
You: You just seem to have a really down to earth vibe that is rare coming from a big city girl.
Her: I’ll take that as a compliment. I like to think of myself as a down to earth kind of girl.

And on your conversation goes.

This of course doesn’t just work on women you are attracted. You should actually use it on all sorts of different people. Being social is a very attractive quality and just because you talk to a woman doesn’t mean you have to hit on her.

Remember that when you approach a woman your looking for answers. What kind of answers?

If she is more then just a pretty face?

If she is interested in seeing you again?

If she is available if you happen to like her?

Make it a goal of yours to try talking to women just for the sake of talking to them and to learn something about them. Only worry about numbers and future dates if you think she has more to offer.

Get away from the computer and give it a try right now!