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I have written a fair bit about the “lets just be friends problem.” It’s probably one of the biggest problems that most men run into. Today’s article is going to take a look at another part of that problem.

The problem were going to look at it is how long should you wait for a woman to decide that she wants to be more then just friends?

The answer?

You don’t wait… The best you can do is to be there in her life for when she is ready for you.

When a woman just wants to be friends it means she isn’t ready for the sort of experience you can provide her with. She might find you to be a nice guy, but that alone isn’t enough for her right now. It’s always possible she has other issues she needs to figure out right now about herself.

She may never figure out that you are as great of a guy that you think you are. She may never sort out her own personal problems. She may never be ready for you…

That is why you don’t wait. You can stay in her life by being a good positive presence. Just maybe some day she will be ready for you. You can’t force her to want to date you or be with you in that way.

While you may still be in her life you keep on dating other women. You test the field to see what other great women are out there. Eventually you will find one that wants you back, who wants the experience you can provide her with, and ultimately gives you what you want.

- Don’t try to date the same woman for a month.
- Don’t try to date the same woman for 3 months.
- Don’t try to date the same woman for 6 months.
- Don’t try to date the same woman for a year.
- Don’t try to date the same woman for your entire life.

If you get caught in that trap the only thing you will ever do is miss out on opportunity. How many other great women could you have met and actually dated during that same period of time? Allot!

INSTEAD OF TRYING To DATE THE SAME WOMAN WHO DOESN’T WANT YOU FIND WOMEN WHO ACTUALLY WANT TO DATE YOU

Every other woman is a waist of your time when your looking for the right one.

Part of this is accepting that the world is full of great women for you to meet. Women are not rare. Take look around. You will see beautifully women everywhere. Don’t be so quick to invest all your energy into one woman. Be a little picky and meet allot of women first.