What I’m saying is that she still has to want to have sex with you. Buying her stuff alone won’t make her want to do that. Being nice to her won’t make her want to do that. For every jerk she meets there is usually a nice guy who is willing to do excessively nice things for her.

If she doesn’t want to have sex with you then she will often end up back with one of those jerk like guys who she finds exciting.

I’m not referring to the “beer-drinking sex-a-hollics who couldn’t turn on a lightbulb let alone a woman.” You shouldn’t be that type of guy.

She really wants something in between a nice guy and a jerk because that is the guy who treats her like a real person. He doesn’t let her use him or put up with her crap. But he still has a soft side to him. This allows her to respect him.

Of course some women will eventually want to get married and have kids. So she will get sick of the jerks and want a guy who can provide and be nice. That comes with other issues that I won’t get into here.

You can be nice to her. There is nothing wrong with being a gentleman. Open doors for her, good manners, and stuff like that. You just have to make sure that she is adding value to your life too. Make sure you read the part at the end

“A woman who is interested in you sexually will put as much effort into dating you as you are willing to put into dating her.”

That last bit is important because you don’t want to be the one doing all the work in the relationship. There needs to be balance.

I think you took some of the things in that article to the extreme end of things.

The few girls I have dated really liked that I bought them stuff and was polite and a gentleman, since most of their other boyfriends where beer-drinking sex-a-hollics who couldn’t turn on a lightbulb let alone a woman.

I will have to disagree with this one on the grounds that it does not give sufficient logical evidence to back up this claim. Sorry.