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Allot of men have a hard time breaking the friends barrier with a woman they are attracted to. If this is a problem that you are having then I think you will enjoy this article. I’m going to give you a few tips that will help you out in this area.

Tip #1 Be Different

It can be very easy to get caught in the trap of doing what every other guy is doing. Things like buying her drinks at the bar, buying her flowers, buying her gifts, and doing favors for her. The problem is that any guy can do those things for her. It’s not unique to the type of experience you can provide her with. This is a fast way to get labeled as a friend.

The first thing you should do is look at what other guys do to attract her and then don’t do those things. You want to offer her a unique experience that only you can provide her with. When a woman starts saying that your different then other guys then you know your on the right path.

When you go about doing something make it original in your own way. If you do buy her drinks don’t buy her drinks like every other guy. Come up with a game or have a bet that might allow you to buy her drinks. Instead of buying her flowers you might pick her a dandelion, gently brush her hair, look deeply in her eyes, and then put the dandelion in her hair.

Find a way to be original in your own unique way.

Tip #2: Demonstrate Masculinity

It’s very important that you show her that you are a man. Most men do not do this. Very often men show a woman how weak he can be.

A woman needs to see that you are strong enough to look out for her and protect her. You don’t have to be a dominant jerk or a biker dude to show her your masculine side. Just look for something simple and a good opportunity.

Let’s say you are at a restaurant. Your table has no ketchup but your date would like some. What you do is get the ketchup for her. You can ask the people at the table beside you for theirs or find some at another table.

Little things like that don’t seem like much, but women notice it. She likes to know that she has a man who will look out for her if she needs it. This will even include some of the most independent women.

Look for opportunities where you can take charge of the situation. She will assume that you will be able to take charge everywhere. This also includes leading things to sex.

This technique can also be overused. Make sure that you aren’t constantly trying to look after her like she is a child. If you do then you will get labeled as a friend.

Tip #3: Sexual Communication

You have to learn to flirt with women and communicate with them in a sexual way. If you initiate this type of conversation you will be surprised by how many women will play along. It shows a woman that you understand how the world works when it comes to men and women.

“You remind me of my cute little sister. That’s why I think I should spank you for being naughty.”

“I noticed that you play with your hair allot. I think you should stop it because it exposes your sexy neck, witch happens to make me want to start kissing it and nibbling it.”

The point is that you have to flirt with her a little bit. You can start with something small and then get a little more ambitious as your conversation flows. You don’t have to keep up this constant banter either. You can just mix it up with your normal conversation.

Tip #4: Touch Her

This one is important. You have to start touching her. Don’t feel her up. Start small then work your way towards bigger things.

- Touch her hand.
- Touch her arm.
- Touch her hair.
- Hold hands.

On and on goes.

You will have to initiate allot of this stuff. If she doesn’t respond well to something then just back off for the time being. Start over again as she starts to warm up towards you.

Tip #5: Be Direct

It helps at some point to be a little more direct about your intent. This isn’t always necessary, but being direct shows great confidence.

You can do this from the moment you approach her.

“I seen you standing over here and I just wanted to tell you that I think your beautiful.”

This let’s her know immediately that you want to be more then just a friend.

These tips I have given you here are all things that will separate you from being just a friend. Now it is up to you to actually go out and use them.