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What To Do If You Don’t Want A Relationship

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Ok, so not every guy wants a relationship. Or maybe you have been in a relationship only to find out there not all that their cracked up to be.

Don’t worry it happens all the time. Most relationships fail. It’s just a part of life.

Guy wants a relationship. Guy gets a relationship. Guy finds out that relationships kind of suck.

So now what? What can you do?

You have a number of different options at your disposal.

#1: Date multiple women casually

Like I said, most relationships fail. They fail because it takes time to get to know someone and because the initial spark won’t last forever.

An easy solution around this is to date multiple women casually. Just let them know upfront where you stand. When you do this you are spreading your emotional investment across many women. Eventually you will meet one that really stands out from all the others.

This is simple and it can be fun. As long as your honest no woman will get hurt.

#2: Casual Sex

There is always going to be some people who think casual sex is bad. But the truth is that sex is just a part of life. All people have the need for it in order to survive.

Here is how you can go about meeting women who will be interested in this sort of opportunity.

The first thing you have to do is approach and meet allot of women. Not every woman will be interested in casual sex. To give you a rough number only between 10% and 20% of the women you meet will be interested. (More then that will be interested if you use heavy seduction techniques, but were trying to do this the easy and honest way.)

So you got to meet allot of women. Your looking between 1 or 2 women out every ten you approach.

When you meet women you have to be fast and send out the right impression of the type of guy you are. Don’t invest too much time into a woman. You only want women who are interest in what you have to offer. You can’t be embarrassed just because you want causal sex or be worried about offending women who are not interested. In other words you need to be direct.

Plan on approaching women that are alone and women you get eye contact from. This allows them to not worry about how they appear in front of their friends.
Again, you want to be fast. You want to meet allot of women. Only talk to a woman for a few minutes. Give yourself a time limit if you have to. 2 minutes, 3 minutes, whatever you think that you need.

Ask her an ordinary question first. How are you today? What are you up to? Basic little chit chat.

Then ask her an interesting question to help escalate things further. This is where you show her that you are hitting on her.

You: If I told you that your curly hair makes you look sexy would you think that I’m hitting on you?
Her: (Smiling) Yes!
You: Good because your hair does make you look sexy and I am hitting on you.
Her: (Giggling)
You: Well I’m a guy who likes to have fun. If you like to have fun too then you can call me some time for some good fun.

(You hand her your number or business card.)

The key thing here is for you to give out your number. If a woman is really interested she will call you for some “fun.” This makes it out to be allot less work on your part.

I recommend you get yourself some business cards made up. They can help get your intent across even more.

For example, it might say. “Willy’s house of fun for women who like to have fun. No long-term commitments or contracts required. Call —- —- to book your appointment today.”

There are other ways to tackle the whole casual sex thing, but that should give you a good start.

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