How A Woman Can Tell That You Are Desperate
By Tyler on Apr 9, 2008 in Confidence, Passion & Life, The Female Mind
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Desperation for sex, a woman, and girlfriend are some of the biggest killers for men. That’s why it is one of the first things most men need to fix before they can have a fulfilling dating life.
How does a woman know that you are desperate?
How does she figure it out so fast?
Here are a few things that many men do to communicate to a woman that he is desperate.
- You use pickup lines. This doesn’t work because it shows her that you are out to pick her up and have sex with her immediately. You don’t know her yet and that is a turn off for just about any woman.
- You have a poor social life. This makes a woman believe that your chasing after her to fulfill that part of your life. Very lame.
- You use women to fulfill your needs. You can’t fulfill all your needs through a woman. Get your own life, with your own goals, and your own personal achievements.
- You don’t know how to control your sex drive. When most guys are horny they go to a bar, get drunk, and approach loads of women. Women can see this and pickup on it. You can use your need for sex in many other ways. Go work on your business or career, go accomplish that dream you want, and just find something else to focus on other then sex.
- You do anything to communicate to her that you seek her approval. Buying her lots of drinks, always paying her way, worshiping her, gift buying, agreeing with everything she says, and many other things.
What most of this boils down to is you using your need for sex to motivate you to excel in all areas of your life. This allows you to be the real man that all women want. When you have what a woman wants the whole meeting and dating thing gets allot easier.
Kenji | Apr 19, 2008 | Reply
This is about the 5th or 7th article of yours I have read and while at first you come off as an “Alpha-male” I have to say “Well sh*t” because you just hit the nail on the head Tyler.
I have been in an unrewarding 3 year relationship because I was desperate. Desperate for approval and attention and all kinds of things.
I need to get my own life, you are correct. I need to get my own social life and I need to be confident in myself.
Demanding that she tells me all the time that I am a good man and that I make her happy is pointless when I do know this for a fact and am just too busy being depressed when with a great girl to see it.
I lost that said girl because I was not “using my need for sex to motivate or excel”, I was too busy being self-loathing and lethargic.