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The vast majority of us men hate being rejected. (Women do to, but this isn’t about women being rejected.) It’s one of the key reasons why you can’t approach women or why you wont approach any more women.

Here is something you probably don’t realize.

The only one who really does the rejecting is you.

If you don’t approach a woman that you would like to meet you have rejected yourself. She never had to do one little thing. You told her that you weren’t worth her time by not approaching her. You did that - not her.

If a woman tells you that she has a boyfriend did she really reject you? Maybe she did or maybe she didn’t. She really could have had a boyfriend. Does it really matter? No it doesn’t. It just means that you don’t need one another right now. There are plenty of other women who do need you right now. Those are the women that you need to meet.

There are certain circumstances where a woman will reject you or where you deserve to be rejected.

Here are just a few, but there probably are more.

Reason #1: You Changed

Let’s say your having a nice conversation with a woman. Your kind of in to her, and she is interested to see where this is going. Somewhere along the way she says something that causes you to change your behavior around her.

She tells you that she is a model. Now your body language changes,
your attitude changes, you seem more nervous around her, and demonstrate more needy behavior.

She completely loses interest in you.

This happens all the time with women. It only takes one little thing for everything to go wrong on her end. You could take her on an incredible date only to disappoint her when she goes back to your place to see what a mess it is.

Reason #2: You Insulted Her

Nobody likes to be insulted. You have to be careful sometimes about what you say or do.

You don’t tell your buddy: “I’m gonna take her home and bang her real good.” Only for her to hear you say it or for one of her friends to overhear it.

The same thing applies to all sorts of different things. You don’t want to insult her job because you think women are too stupid to do that kind of work. I’ve seen guys do that sort of thing.

Think before you speak.

Reason #3: Not Knowing When She’s Not Interested

This is one you have probably seen before. It’s very common in clubs and bars.

I guy approaches some girls, but he won’t leave them alone. He sticks around longer then he is welcomed, when he leaves he comes back to bother them again, and just flat out doesn’t quit.

This is annoying. And it’s really creepy for a woman.

You have to respect her enough to just let her go. Read her body language, listen to what she is telling you, and then walk away politely.

Other women may be watching you to see how well you respond.