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There are many many confidence killers that are built inside you. The worst of these confidence killers come from your past. Mistakes that you have previously made with women are by far the worst.

I’ll share with you a few mistakes that I have made.

- I once had a woman lying in my bed who wanted to have sex with me. She even said “We can do stuff you know” “I need something from you.” “Do you have any idea how your frustrating me.” This was simply fear getting the best of me.

- I called a girl at the same time every day just because she wanted me too. She then got sick of me. I wonder why?

- I used to let a number of women “test me” over the phone by asking me lots and lots of questions. Not a good place to let a woman work you over like that.

- I did the dinner and a movie thing a number of times with no success what so ever. Too boring, unoriginal, and hard to make good conversation.

We all make mistakes, but you can’t dwell on these mistakes. The more you dwell on a mistake the more you amplify that mistake as something significant in your life. There only significance is what you can learn from these mistakes.

If a woman uses you because you are to nice; what can you learn from that?

You can learn to stop being so nice to people who don’t give you equal respect in return. It does not matter how beautiful she is no one disrespects you. No one at all. You serve an important purpose to this world. Your a unique individual who is needed by somebody and something.

If a woman doesn’t like how you approach her: what can you learn from that?

Maybe she was in a bad mood? Maybe I wasn’t making good eye contact with her? Maybe I made her feel uncomfortable? Maybe I used a lame pickup line? Maybe I was just too nervous? Or maybe I was just too amazing for her?

No matter what you learn or don’t learn you keep going. The next time you try you visualize positive things that will happen to you. Why would positive things happen to you? Because, you are an amazing person who deserves good things in your life. Yes… you do!

- When you go to approach her you can see her smiling.

- When you tell a joke you can see her laughing

- When you ask for her umber you can see her saying yes.

Always visualize positive thoughts and think with positive words. Your going to make mistakes it’s how you respond to them that matters.