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There are certain qualities, traits, and personalty types that make women attract towards a man. I’m going to list 7 of these qualities. If you don’t have these then you should work towards acquiring a few of them.

#1 Confidence

Were all confident more in some areas then we are in others. In order to be successful with women you have to become more confident around people. You should try to become more confident in all areas of your life.

I don’t know of any high quality women that don’t want a man who is confident with who he is.

You need more confidence if:

- You let fear stop you from going after things that you want. (Your dreams, goals, and women.)
- You don’t command respect from others.
- You seek other peoples approval.

#2 Humor

I think one of the reasons women like guys who are funny is because they plan on staying with a guy along time. When a guy is funny it means she will be in good company.

Humor isn’t that easy to learn. It takes practice and you have to be willing to look like a fool sometimes.

You can also over use humor. Some men look more like fools then they do like a guy with a sense of humor.

Here are a few tips on using humor.

- Show her that you can be serious too. Not everything is a joke.
- You have to time your humor. When somebody dies its not funny.
- Combine humor with sexual tension, flirting, and playfulnesses. Ex. If she spills something on her lick it off her.
- Realize that you don’t always have to be funny you just need to be fun.

#3 Masculine

This is something we are hearing more and more all the time from women.

As women have become more independent the less they want a nice guy. Its not about being able to provide anymore its about being able demonstrate strong masculine qualities. These are often traits that make a woman feel strong attraction and arousal.

To be more masculine you will often need to do the opposite of most dating advice.

- Don’t suck up to a woman.
- Don’t give her everything that she wants just because she wants.
- Don’t buy her things all the time.
- Don’t always be Mr. Nice Guy.

#4 Status

I have talked about status before. Its very hard for a woman to not swing her head to see a guy driving an expensive sports car. She can’t help it because it is a status symbol.

This doesn’t mean you have to drive a hot car. There is actually an interesting twist here. If you have lots of money it might be better to not drive a hot sports car. It could shock her how confident you are. How you don’t need to show off to people how rich you are and how modest you are.

Status can be conveyed in many different ways. Often just acting like you are a somebody rather then a nobody will work.

I personally have always used the more modest yet confident approach. I prefer not to brag or show off. I would much rather let her discover things about me over time. It offers her an element of surprise and perks her curiosity.

#5 Being Interesting

Being interesting is a hard one to explain. I don’t thing its the same as being different. Being different is something a woman would describe you as if she was attracted to you.

Here is how I’m going to put it.

You have to live a life that is interesting in order to be interesting.

- You have to have experienced things in your life to tell interesting stories.
- You have to have interesting things to talk about.
- You have to make normal conversation seem interesting.
- You have to offer her 1st times. Things she has never done before.

#6 Intelligence

It’s often been said that women don’t like geeks or nerds. But this doesn’t mean women are not attracted to intelligence. A matter of fact, intelligence is a very attractive quality.

- Intelligence means you will be able to pass on some of those smarts to your future children.
- Intelligence means you can get your family out of trouble and help them survive.
- Intelligence means you can engage in good conversation.
- Intelligence means you specialization is something. (Gives you Authority)
- Intelligence means you can teach her new things.
- The reason geeks and nerds struggle with women is because they are poor communicators.

Geeks are better at communication with other geeks and gadgets then they are with women.

#7 Stability

It’s hard to be interesting, exciting, spontaneous, and still offer a woman stability. If you can put all of it together then you will be something special.

Stability means you need to be the rock in her life.

- She can come to you when she has a problem.
- You listen to her.
- You don’t go gambling your money away.
- Your not a drug addict or alcoholic.
- You can be depended on.
- You are in control of your own emotions.
- You can help her be in control of her emotions.

Yet, you can still offer her fun and exciting experiences.