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Yesterday we took a look at a few reasons why women test men. To follow up with that I’m going to give you a few things women do to test men.

It should be noted that allot of things women do to test men are things she doesn’t even know that she is doing. Many women will see these as “getting to know the other person”. While that is true to a certain degree it often goes well beyond that.

Here are 3 tests women use on men.

Test #1: The Trust Test

Are the things you say to her believable?

Do you mean the things you say to her?

Is your behavior for real?

These are the sorts of questions that go through a womans mind. She doesn’t know if she can trust you yet.

This is where a woman will try to ask you challenging questions and closely observe your behavior to see if you are what you perceive to be.

For example, you might be very charming and well dressed. You take her home to your place and your place is a mess. Its dirty, its stinky, and she hates it. At that moment everything she thought that you were just went out the window. She may never want to see you again.

There are many other examples I could give here, but I will stop at that one.

Test #2: How You Treat Others

I know that many women are very observant to how a man treats other people.

How do you use older people?

How do you use the waitress or waiter?

How do you behave around kids?

Do you hold the door open for others?

Do you look like your trying to impress her when you do those things?

The idea here is to show her that you respect others. You can still do this by being confident, funny, interesting, and allot of fun to be around.

Test #3: How You Handle Adversity

How do you handle difficult situations?

How calm are you when things do go wrong?

Do you take charge of the situation?

For example, what would you do if your car broke down on the first date? Do you get stressed out and angry? Do you keep apologizing for it? Do you joke about it and laugh it off? She will be watching to see how you handle yourself.