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At one point in my life I could attract women easily. Really, I could. I hardly ever put any effort into it all.

Women would talk to me, give me lots of attention, wonder what I was doing, and so on. I didn’t really do any one thing to ever meet them. These women just sort of popped up out of nowhere.

I just didn’t have the desire to do any dating. I didn’t want a girlfriend at all.

I adapted this attitude and lifestyle from a fairly early age. When I was in high school I cared more about sports. When I was in college I cared more about graduating and starting my career. I just didn’t concern myself with dating and sex the same way many men did at my age.

Women loved this attitude and outlook on life.

Later on I decided that maybe I should start dating more. So I decided that I needed to put more effort into it. Here is the interesting thing.

The more effort I put into my dating life the less I got out of it.

Read that more then once if you have to.

There is a lesson here. I had passion for my life. Women liked that passion.

Here are a few notes on why you need to find your passion.

- A guy who knows where he is going is a guy who is going places.
- A guy who has passion is exciting.
- A guy who has passion has identity. (He knows who he is)
- A guy who has passion is a leader not a follower.
- A guy who has passion is focused.
- A guy who has passion isn’t desperate or needy.
- A man who is passionate is happy.

All of these things have major benefits when it comes to your dating life. Here are some things that will go through a womans mind.

- I wonder if I can get him to put that kind of focus on me?
- I wonder if I can get him to be that passionate about me?
- This man is going places. This will be an exciting ride.
- This man knows who is and where he going. Great! No mind games!
- He just doesn’t do what everyone else does. He is so confident.

As you can see the benefits are almost endless. So what are you waiting for? There has never been a better time to find your passion. It doesn’t matter if you are 18 or 80. Get to it and find your zest for life.