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Probably the biggest problem for most men when it comes to meeting women is approach anxiety. You just don’t stand a chance of having a good dating life if you wont get off your butt and approach some women.

What I have for you here today is 3 step system that will help you overcome this anxiety.

Step 1: Make An Effort To Do Things Differently

Most men just sit there or stand there and stair. You have to try something that is different then those two things. Yes it does take an effort to do something differently, but it has to be done.

Its just as easy to walk over to her and talk to her as it is to look at her. She will think your a bigger idiot just for staring.

What you are doing here is going for experience. You don’t need to go for attraction. You want to see how women respond to the things you are saying and doing.

Step 2: Approach People

Once you have decided that you will make that effort, and have changed the reason why you are making that effort (for the experience) you will then need to do it.

I recommend that you start by approaching women that you are not attracted to. You should approach all strangers, but do approach lots of women.

Take note of how these women you are not attracted to respond. Are any showing interest of attraction? You might be surprised to find out some of these women are not attracted to you at all. You might also be surprised to find out many of the women you are attracted to are also attracted to you (This is quit common by the way).

Step 3: Practice Responding

When you approach a woman she is going to react to your approach. You cant say anything in particular that will control her reaction. You can control how you respond to her reaction. This is what is most important.

The idea is to get used to women being a little unpredictable. She may try to test you or dominate you in some way.

Women in different locations will be more likely to respond in a certain way. For example, a woman at a club might give you more of an attitude. If you like meeting women in clubs then you need to practice a good response to that attitude.

When you learn how to respond the right way you learn to trust yourself. You will believe that you will respond in the best possible way under difficult situations. This will lead to confidence knowing that you wont embarrass yourself.

Conclusion

As you can probably tell allot of this has to do with you getting the experience of approaching women. Allot of your fear comes from simply not knowing what to expect from her and then not knowing how to respond to her. With experience you will get more comfortable handling both of those areas.