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We have gotten pretty far so far with building confidence, approaching women, flirting, and touch. Using all these things together we can make up a good conversation and fun interactions with just about any woman that you meet. But, in the end, you still need to have some good normal conversation in there.

Normal conversation is what really life is made out of. For a woman to feel connected to you she needs to feel that she can ramble on just about anything. She needs to be heard. That’s what normal conversation is all about.

As i mentioned in the lesson about approaching women you need to do is get the woman talking by asking her open-ended questions. Open-ended questions allow you to get to the point where the woman gives out more then just yes , no and other basic answers to questions. As she gets used to giving more then just one word answers she will start to volunteer information out about herself and even start asking you questions.

Obviously this isn’t always a simple task. Some women will be more open while others will be more shy. But the formula works great. What you need to do is fill in the gaps of conversation until she feels more comfortable to open up. The main thing that you need to do is maintain her attention. As long as you have her attention then you know you aren’t boring her.

Okay. So here is what you need to do to fill in the gaps. When you ask a woman an open- ended questions you need to be prepared to answer or make a comment on that question. You do this because she may not give you a good enough answer to keep the conversation going.

Here is what I mean.

You: What did you spend most of your time doing when you were little?
Her: I don’t remember.

That isn’t the type of answer you are looking for to maintain a good conversation. It’s just not very interesting. This is where you can come in and fill in the gap before things stall out. Sometimes you need to be prepared to answer you own question.

You: What did you spend most of your time doing when you were little?
Her: I don’t remember.
You: That’s too bad. I have many fond memories of playing hide and go seek with my brother and sister. I remember this once when I even hid and got lost…

That may not be the best example, but it does show you how you can fill in the gap. The more she starts to learn about you the more comfortable she will be around you. You can even leave her hanging so that she will start to ask you questions. This can also set things up for you to tell a story.

There is one thing you need to keep in mind. Its very important for you to mix your conversation up with flirting, touching, and escalating. Simple conversation like this wont get you very far beyond friendship if you don’t do those things too.

Your exercise for today is to go out and make good conversation with at least 3 woman you have never met before. Use all the tactics I have given you so far.