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Up until this point you have been flirting with her by being interested, interesting, using humor, compliments, your presence, and your unique personality. If your not doing those things then you should be sprinkling them in your conversation. But now your really going to flirt to create tension. The best way to do this is usually through teasing, touch, and more sexually oriented compliments.

Here are a bunch of examples.

“I like the way you tilt your head to the side. It makes me want to lean in to kiss you.”

“I noticed that you have allot of freckles on your face. You have no idea how that turns me on.”

“Normally I don’t like girls like you. I’m still not sure if I like you. But the thoughts of kissing you has crossed my mind many times.”

Now those are just a few examples. The best one is the freckles one because it can’t be said to any woman. The more unique it is to her and her only the better. This makes her feel special and not look like a pickup line. Be on the look out for little things that she does or has about her personality that you like. You can then take those things and spin it in a way that builds tension and makes her feel good.

Another thing that works well is teasing her or getting her to prove herself to you. You have to have the ability to get underneath a womans skin a little bit. You want her to feel some sort of emotion or she will get bored. Of course you can over do this too.

“You seem like your mostly a good girl. While I like that it can be a little disappointing.”

Statements like that can be a little confusing for her. This makes you a little mysterious and may even make her want to prove to you that she does have a bad side.

You should realize that none of these examples are proven to work. I simply made them up while I was writing this. So use them at your own risk.

There is one last thing you need to do. You need to make certain that you touch a woman. You have to do it sooner rather then later, but at a point and time when she is comfortable with it. Try safe areas like hands, arms, shoulders, and even her back. This shows her this is going to be a physical thing.