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By now you might be thinking that your boring with the advice I have given you. But you wont be boring by doing the things that I have said up until this point. That’s as long as you use your tone of voice, facial expressions, and actually have a fun lifestyle.

Of course things will get boring if you don’t escalate things farther. At some point or another you have to really push things forward or things really can stall out. This is when you will get the lets just be friends talk. This is where escalating comes in. By escalating you will let the woman know what your true intentions are and build momentum.

Now that you have the woman talking about herself you have to be a little bit more bold in your moves. This is when you hit her with a compliment and then tell her that you want more from her. You can also mix things up with a little bit of teasing.

“You know Julie your nice to talk too. How about we head over to Starbucks where we can continue our stimulating conversation?”

“You know Julie your kind of a goof. But I like that about you. Lets go to Starbucks where we can continue our stimulating conversation?”

Its a very bold move to get a date with a woman like this right now and right on the spot. Once you get her to commit to something like this you can start to push things even further.

If you don’t think you can pull this off then you can always go for her number or make plans for a future date. It’s often better to think big and take that risk. Taking risks is what keeps you out of the friendship zone.

Don’t be afraid to escalate and move things fast. As long as you have her talking you can move things forward. By escalating quickly you keep things out of the dreadful friends zone.