One of the things that makes a guy look desperate is his need to shower a woman with his time. The problem occurs when you give up too much time for a woman. This will bring up the question: Doesn’t he have anything else to do?

Of course this can work both ways.

What would you do if you have a woman coming over to your place all the time, calling you all the time, and complimenting you all the time. Don’t you want a little time to do other things or maybe some time to yourself? If you don’t then your not a normal guy.

Normal people have things to do, places to go, and people to see. When you are busy like this the attention you give a woman becomes more rewarding. She will know that you are a busy guy, yet you are making time for her throughout the week. She is more likely to feel special because you can’t possibly give your time to every woman.

The easiest way to not be desperate or needy is to simply have a life yourself. And I mean really have a life. I don’t mean just faking things. Don’t just act busy. Really be a busy guy that has things going on in his life.

Do you have a job?

I hope you are working. This will keep you busy for much of the week. You should be working towards something that you enjoy doing and something that allows you accomplish something big. You need to have goals that you want to work towards in your career.

Friends & Family

You need your guy friends and she needs her girl friends. There are certain things that only you can really talk about with guys and there are certain things that she can only talk about with girls. You should be getting together with friends at least once per week, if not more.

It should also be a goal of yours to keep things in good standing with your family.

Hobbies

You got to have things that you enjoy doing. Were not just talking TV here. Find something that you love doing and could spend all your time doing it. When you have hobbies that you enjoy doing you will train yourself to make time for those things.

Health

Your not in control of everything that relates to your health, but you need to do your part. You need to eat healthy, exercise, go to the dentist, and have regular checkups with your doctor. People who look after themselves respect themselves. It’s a trait of a person who has a high self-esteem.

Fashion

You don’t have to be the best looking guy to attract women. However, having a good sense of style says allot about yourself. You can also bet that a woman will notice it. Work towards finding a look that suits you. This isn’t about dressing to impress her. The idea is to find something that you like. Others will have to except your look even if they don’t like it.

Conclusion

That stuff might seem basic and even like common sense. You would be probably right for thinking so. The bottom line is basic stuff like that is the most easiest to overlook. If you can’t get the basics right then how can you get the more advanced stuff right? Get your life in order and you will feel much better about yourself.