If I told you the world was square would you believe it? You probably wouldn’t because it is proven that the world is round.

If I told you that when you bleed your blood is yellow would you believe it? Probably not because it is red.

If I told you that you were good looking would you believe it? Your probably not so sure about this one.

Your beliefs are going to come from somewhere. The source of where they come from will effect how you perceive yourself.

In our society we are brought up believing that we need to have big muscles, have great hair, a great face, and good physical features for women to be attracted to us. But just because society says thats the way it is doesn’t mean thats the way it is.

Of course society can also confuse women too. They see all this stuff on TV and think thats what turns them on. Research shows otherwise. Most studies show that women are not as visual as us men. We all know that women need to warm up towards a guy anyways. Rarely will a woman look at a guy and want to have sex with him.

The point is that just like the world is round, women are attracted to a wide variety of characteristics that go beyond good looks. It’s simply the way things are. This means you could be believing in things that are simply not true.

You might be fat, but does that really mean women don’t find you attractive?

Society says that men like skinny women, but does that explain why there are porn sites all over the place with pictures of big women?

You have to be very careful about what you choose to believe in. In fact you need to create your own beliefs. Most things that relate to dating are a matter of opinion anyways. One person might think you are butt ugly while the hot model over there might like a guy just like you.

Stop seeing your beliefs as facts. Start seeing your beliefs as opinions. That is exactly what they are.

Here is what you have to do.

Never assume the worse. Always assume the best.

With every woman that you meet you need to adapt the mindset that you are her ideal type. She may tell you that your not her type, but until she shows it with her behavior you can never be certain. Meet every woman with that attitude and you will see success.